Mambo ya soka haya...

Kutoka kushoto ni Philip Nkini, Benjamin Mwanambuu, Amran Kaima, Wilbert Moland, Chalz Mgella na Innocent Mafuru. Hiyo ili kwenye mechi kati ya Global na Tegeta FC.

Msanii w filamu, NICOLE...

Huu sasa unaitwa MSAMBWANDA!

Johari na Riyamaaaa

So lovely!

DIAMOND

Jamaa ni noma!

MY OUTING JAMANI

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Kwa msosi siko nyuma jamani, kula kuku kama kawa!

MY TRUELLY FRIENDS!

Kushoto ni Ally Abdallah,anayefuata ni Hamida Hassan na huyo hapo pembeni ni Zekaima. Hapa ilikuwa ni siku ya birthday ya mshikaji wetu anayeitwa Shaluwa maeneo ya Sinza Makaburini jijini Dar es Salaam.

Mambo ya mtandao haya

Mwanangu Ally akiwa anajiandaa kufanya mambo yake kwenye laptop!

CHEKA KIDOGO TAFADHALI!

MAMA AJIFUNGUA WATOTO 6

Huyu mama ana kila sababu ya kufunga kizazi jamani!

10 Things You Should Know About Your New Man …

The following list are things to know about your new man. When you get involved with a person, it’s always good to know at least a little bit about him. Eventually you will get to know each other, but some things need to be known sooner than others. This just might not be the person you thought he was. It’s better to find out sooner instead of later.


10. Is he well-mannered?

Having a boyfriend that demonstrates manners is a huge plus. There’s something attractive about a guy who knows how to behave in public. Politeness goes a lot further than crudeness any time. A well-mannered man is often chivalrous as well. It’s nice to have the door held open for you every now and then. People are usually taught manners by their family members, so if your man is polite, you can be fairly certain that he had a good upbringing as well.

9. Does he have a good sense of humor?

If a guy can laugh at his own mistakes, then he will most likely be very easy going and good natured. A good sense of humor usually makes him fun to be with as well. I think this is one of the best things to know about your boyfriend. I like a man who can make me laugh and laugh with me. Guys who get grumpy over the slightest thing tend to be over dramatic and make things more stressful than they need to be. Humor is often key in helping a relation ship to go further as well.


8. Do negative comments fill his conversations?

Negativity is very catching. Have you ever noticed that when someone says something negative to a person that that person often retorts and is negative towards someone else? It’s like a giant chain reaction. Talking to someone who has nothing but negative things to say is often a huge downer. There’s no quicker way to ruin your good mood than by dealing with a persistent pessimist. I think this would be a good trait to find out about in the beginning of a relationship.

7. Is he self-centered?

Finding out if your man only thinks of himself is best to know right away. It’s hard to get along with someone who feels everything should go his way. If he comes across as being self-centered in the beginning, chances are he’s not going to change later down the road. Selfish people usually do what’s in their best interest, no matter how it makes other people feel or what the consequences are.


6. Are there any interests he has that you also have?

How well do you know your boyfriend and what his interests are? Having common interests usually makes for better conversations. If you find out that you actually have things in common, this could be a good sign for the future as well. When you and your man like similar things then this means you will have more opportunity to do things together that you both actually enjoy.

5. Could you create a future with him?

It’s always good to know from the start if there might be a possibility that you and your boyfriend will be able to have any kind of future together. If you and your man get along well together, then this is definitely a good sign. Couples who start off arguing constantly tend to find that they have a stressful relationship and it usually doesn’t last forever.


4. What are his pet peeves?

Other things to know about your new man include pet peeves. It’s always good to find out if he has any of these. Most people have at least one or two things that truly irritate them. On the other hand, some people have a lengthy list of things that annoy them. It would be good to know if something you do out of habit might be on his list of pet peeves. Some pet peeves are something as trivial as getting irritated by people who don’t use coasters for their drinks. Knowing that something you do might potentially grate on your man’s nerves will help you to become more conscious about your habit. Swapping pet peeves can be fun as well!

3. Does he have a short fuse?

There are many people that come across as cool, calm, and collected individuals. This is the appearance that everyone gets when in public. How do you know what he is like when he gets frustrated with something? Finding out that your boyfriend has a quick temper might be good to know when a relationship is just starting out. This will open your eyes to how much patience he has with various things. If he gets so irate that he starts punching walls, then it might be a good time to discuss this issue with him.


2. Does he have a job?

How well do you know your boyfriend. Another way you can tell just how well do you know your boyfriend is by knowing whether or not he has a job. This is commonly a question that comes up on a first date, so hopefully you know where or if your man works. I’d be skeptical if he won’t tell you exactly what he does. This doesn’t necessarily mean that his job isn’t legit, but who knows what else he may not be telling you. If you can’t trust him in the beginning, then it may only become more difficult in the future to form a trusting relationship.


1. Where is he from?

Again, this is another fact that people usually find out on a first date with someone. It’s good to know if he’s local, if he’s from out of town, and where he grew up at. If he was born in one place, but moved every couple of years, then he might not be willing to stay in one place for very long. If he was born and raised in one area, then he might be more likely to settle down rather quickly. These are good things to find out when you first get involved with someone.

These are the 10 questions that I feel are important to ask and know about your man. You wouldn’t want to be in a relationship for many months and then find out there is a specific way you walk in your flip flops that drives him up the wall. So, how well do you know your boyfriend and all his mannerisms?

How To Get A Good Man - Good Husband Material

A good man is hard to find. That is why divorce rate is very high. The solution? Get it right from the beginning. Marry a good husband. But how do you get a good man?

There's no denying it. It's so hard to find quality men these days. Any woman seeking man, any woman seeking a good husband, can testify to that. A woman who has been through a divorce will testify even more to the accuracy of that statement.

Honestly, it's just so hard to find responsible men these days. But why, you ask.

The simple reason is this. Today many men are afraid of commitment. They only want the good stuff. Few men really want to settle down to family life. Many just want a pleasant moment in a woman's arms and off they go.

On the other hand, many women want to settle down. They want commitment, dedication, and a sense of responsibility from men. They want a permanent shoulder to lean on and a trustworthy companion. This is the kind of man women want.

In reality, this is what makes a man a good man, a good husband.

So, where are all the responsible and dedicated men?

They are everywhere. They are in every neighborhood, every state, every country. But to find and get them women have to see differently.

So, how do you get a good husband?

First, be realistic. Be realistic about what you want, be realistic about your expectations.

For example, do not expect to find a perfect man. No man is perfect. No woman is perfect either. You yourself are not perfect. So, do not expect perfection from any man.

You must understand that being a good man or a good husband material does not mean the man
is flawless. If you desire perfection, you won't find any man who will measure up to that impeccably high standard.

Second, demand honesty. Give honesty.

A relationship is pointless without honesty. Your man is the closest person to you. If you can't trust him, whom can you trust?

A good man is trustworthy. If the man you have feelings for isn't trustworthy, he's not a good husband material. And, you shouldn't be in that relationship.

Third, look find a man who compliments you in everyway possible. This makes it easy for you to work together and resolve difficulties when they arise. And you also enjoy his company more.

Bottom line.

Your relationship will last longer, even forever, when you find and stick with your perfect match. So,
who is a good husband material?

Simple. It's that man who compliments you in everyway possible.

Fourth, test his love. Does he really love you? Well, how can you tell if he does?

There's a realistic way to find out. Use the love quiz at http://www.true-love-relationship-advice.com/love-quiz.html

Analyze what you feel and the depth of his love using the love quiz in the above URL. A good man as far as you're concerned is the man who loves you. If he doesn't love you, he belongs to someone else not you.

Love relationship is beautiful and enjoyable when there is a meeting of minds. Do not settle for anything short of a good man, a good husband material.

You want love. You want happiness. You want peace of mind. And it's only a good man, it's only a good husband material who can give you that.

I AM BORN INTELLIGENT

Hapa sina la kusema jamani, enjoy the picture!

PATI YA UZINDUZI WA CLOUDS TV KUJUMUISHA VIPINDI NA MUZIKI KUTOKA KITUO CHA MTV BASE, NILIWAKILISHA!

Mkurugenzi wa Clouds TV, Joseph Kusaga akijiandaa kutoa speech kwa wageni waalikwa,alinifurahisha kwa kitu kimoja tu 'his pose'.

Umati wa watu waliohudhuria pati hiyo,ilikuwa full kujiachia yani.

Mastaa Madam Ritta, Master J na Gadiner wakimshangilia Nature alipokuwa akitoa burudani

Hapa nikiwa na mwandishi mwenzangu Hamida Hassan 'Sister Doi' tukifuatila jambo. Hiyo bia siyo yangu jamani ni ya mwandishi mwenzangu tuliyekuwa naye. Mimi nilikunywa malta tu na mwenzangu hapo pembeni akapata juice yake safi ya passion.

Meneja wetu, Abdallah Mrisho akitupa maelekezo kwani tulikuwa kikazi zaidi.

TABIA 7 ZA WATU WASIOWEZA KUFANIKIWA KIMAISHA!

Kama kuna mtu ambaye amekuwa akisoma makala zangu tangu nilipoanza kuandika na amekuwa akipenda kufanikiwa kimaisha namuomba kwa unyenyekevu, asiwe miongoni mwa watu ambao watakuwa na tabia zifuatazo kwani hataweza kufanikiwa kimaisha hata kama watakesha wakifanya kazi kwa bidii.
Hufikiri, kusema na kufanya yasiyowezekana

Watu wasioweza kufanikiwa hujaa fikra za kutofanikiwa na mara nyingi hulalamikia sana matatizo yao. Wakati mwingine wasioweza kufanikiwa hugeuza mambo mema na kuyafanya yaonekane mabaya, jua likiwaka watalalamika joto, likipoa watalaumu baridi, watalaumu foleni za barabarani, yaani kwao kila jambo wataligeuza na kulipa sababu mbaya. Hata wanaposhindwa kutekeleza jambo hutoa sababu, yote ni kuzilinda fikara zao za kutofanikiwa.
Tabia hii hukua mpaka kufikia hatua wanapowatazama wenzao hudhani kuwa wanawasengenya, kuwafanyia mambo mabaya, kuwasaliti, ili mradi tu kuwa kinyume na mambo mema.

Watu wa namna hii hata kama watasaidiwa namna gani hugeuza misaada hiyo kuwa ya kujipendekeza na mara nyingi hupuuza wema haraka na kueneza mabaya ya mtu. Lakini pamoja na yote kutokana na fikra zao kuwa za kushindwa watu wa tabia hii hukata tamaa mapema hasa pale wanapofanya jambo na kuonekana lina ugumu kidogo.
Hutenda kabla ya kufikiri
Tabia ya pili ya watu wasioweza kufanikiwa kimaisha ni hii ya kutenda jambo kabla ya kufikiria. Watu wa aina hii, huwa wepesi sana kununua vitu barabarani mara tu wanaposhawishiwa na macho au wauzaji.
Utakuta mtu bila hata kujiuliza faida za kitu hicho anaamua haraka kukipata. Ataamua kwa haraka kuoa, kuolewa, kukubali kujiingiza katika mapenzi na hata kufanya jambo lolote bila kujiuliza atanufaika vipi?
Hupenda kuzungumza zaidi ya kusikiliza
Watu ambao wako katika hatari ya kutofanikiwa ni wale ambao daima ni wazuri katika kuzungumza kuliko kusikiliza. Wao huwa ni wajuajia wa kila kitu, hawako tayari kupokea ushauri.

Siku zote wanapokuwa kwenye makundi ya watu pengine wajuzi zaidi yao wao huwa hodari kujenga hoja kutetea mambo yao hata kama hayafai. Unaweza kumkuta mtu ni kiongozi wa ngazi za juu, amefanya kosa na watu wote wameona kuwa kakosea lakini mhusika hujiona si mikosaji.
Mtu anapokuwa muongeaji sana huwa mgumu kupokea ushauri wa yeyote, anachoamua yeye hukifanya kwa imani kuwa kinafaa. Ukiwa mtu mwenya tabia ya aina hii huwezi kufanikiwa kabisa katika maisha yako.

Watafiti wa masuala ya biashara ulimwenguni waliwahi kushauri kuwa, mipango mizuri ya kibiashara hutoka kwa watu masikini, ambao walisema hufikiri zaidi namna ya kujikomboa kuliko matajiri wanavyofikiri katika kujiendeleza, hivyo wakasema kama mtu anataka kufanikiwa kibiashara lazima asikilize mawazo ya masikini si kuwapuuza kwa kujiona ni bora zaidi yao.
Hukata tamaa mapema
Watu wanaotaka kufanikiwa huchukulia kushindwa kama hatua ya kuelekea kwenye mafanikio, lakini watu wasioweza kufanikiwa wanapojaribu mara moja au mbili kuvuka kikwazo fulani cha kimaisha na kushindwa, hukata tamaa na kutotaka kujaribu tena kusonga mbele. Wenye tabia ya kushindwa kimaisha hawako tayari kudumu na jambo moja linaloonekana kushindikana kwao kwa muda mrefu. Akiona mwanamke ambaye ni mkorofi kidogo, haraka hukimbilia kumwacha na kutafuta mwingine, mara nyingi si watu wavumilivu.
Akijaribu biashara ya vitumbua kwa wiki moja na akaona havinunuliwi, anaanza kupika maandazi, wiki moja baadaye yuko kwenye mihogo, basi ili mradi kuhangaika kusikokuwa na tija katika maisha. Ukitaka kuwa mmoja kati ya watu wasioweza kufanikiwa kimaisha, jaribu kuishi maisha ya kukata tamaa mapema unapofanya mambo.
Hujaribu kuwarudisha nyuma wengine
Wasioweza kufanikiwa katika maisha huwa na tabia moja ya ajabu ambayo ilianzishwa na Hawa mwanamke anayetajwa katika Kitabu cha Biblia kuwa ni mtu wa kwanza kufanya dhambi. Mwanamke huyu alipodanganywa na nyoka na kuchuma tunda hakutosheka na dhambi zake, bali alimpelekea na mumewe Adamu naye akala. Mara nyingi watu walioshindwa kimaisha huwa na tabia za kuwashawishi watu wengine wawe kama wao katika mawazo na matendo.
Tabia za watu wa aina hii huwa si za kimaendelezo kwa vile wao hudhani kuwa njia zao ni sahihi na hivyo hujaribu kwa nguvu zao kuwarudisha wengine nyuma ili wawe kama wao. Ni watu wenye wivu wa ‘kijinga’, wakiona mwingine anaendelea katika hiki na kile humpiga vita ili afilisike. Ni wafitini na wachonganishi. Wenye tabia za kutofanikiwa hudhani kuwa kukwama kwao hutokana na vikwazo vinavyoletwa na wengine. “Kwa sababu jamaa kanikwamisha hiki na kile, nimekwama kwa sababu ya kaka yangu”
Hupoteza muda mwingi
Watu ambao hawawezi kufanikiwa ni wale ambao  hupoteza muda mwingi kufanya mambo yasiyokuwa na tija, kwa kuangalia TV, kusengenya watu, kunywa pombe, kufanya starehe na kutumia muda hovyo kwenye kazi ambazo hazina msaada kwao. Wapo watu mahodari kutembelea kwenye nyumba za wengine na kuongea huko kutwa nzima bila kujali kama muda waliopoteza wangeweza kufanya kazi na kujipatia kipato.
Huchagua mambo rahisi
Wakati mwingine mafanikio huhitaji kufanya kazi ngumu zenye kuchosha, lakini watu wasiokuwa na uwezo wa kufanikiwa wanapoletewa mambo mawili huwa wepesi zaidi kuchagua jepesi kulifanya. Kama ni kazi, basi zisiwe ngumu sana ziwe nyepesi nyepesi ambazo watazifanya bila jasho. Watu wasiokuwa kwenye njia ya mafanikio hawapendi kujituma, wepesi kuchoka na mara nyingi hupenda sana kufanya kazi kidogo na kulala sana.
Tabia za watu wasioweza kufanikiwa huwa ni za kukwepa kuwajibika. Hata kama kuna mtu anataka kumpatia kitu na akamwambia awahi kesho yake asubuhi, huchelewa kwa vile hawezi kujilawa asubuhi na kuacha raha ya usingizi. Wakati mwingine hata akiambiwa asubiri mpaka muda fulani huwa hayuko tayari kusubiri.
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ALL THE BEST BABA!MY GOD BE WITH YOU

Namtakia kila la kheri baba yangu Mzee Shekoloa katika mbio zake za kuwania Ubunge wa Jimbo la Mlalo kupitia CCM. All the best baba, hapa nipo na mu naamini na dua zake zitasaidia pia.

MAMBO YA MCHINA HAYA

Jamani haya ni mambo ya mchina. Nawashauri wanawake kutojaribu kwani madhara yake ni makubwa sana.

UMEIONA STAILI YA NYWELE YA SHAA?

Anaitwa Sara Kaisi 'Shaa'. Ni msanii wa bongo fleva ambaye staili yake ya nywele hunivutia sana!She is just gud kwakweli.....!

UKISHAPENDA, UKAPENDWA,ZIBA MASIKIO YAKO KWANI MANENO YA WATU NI SUMU...

Ukishapenda ukapendwa, ziba masikio, maneno ya watu yatakuyumbisha!
Awali ya yote nichukue fursa hii kumshukuru Muumba wa mbingu na ardhi kwa mema yote ambayo amekuwa akinitendea katika kila siku ya maisha yangu.

Hakika Mungu ni mwema na kwa hili mimi na wewe tuna kila sababu ya kumtukuza na kumfurahisha kwa kutenda yale ambayo ametuamrisha na kuachana kabisa na yale ambayo ametukataza.

Mpenzi msomaji wangu, mapenzi ni kitu cha ajabu sana, uajabu wake uko katika mazingira tofauti lakini hili ninalotaka kulieleza leo ni pale mtu anapotokea kumzimikia mtu flani ambaye katika mazingira ya kawaida watu wasingetarajia iwe hivyo.

Nasema haya nikimaanisha kwamba, katika hali ya kawaida tulitarajia binti kutoka katika familia bora mwenye mvuto wa kimapenzi kutokuwa tayari kuwa na uhusiano na mwanaume uchwara asiye na mbele wala nyuma.

Lakini kinyume chake tunashuhudia wasichana wazuri sana ambao mambo yao safi wakitokea kuzimika kwa wanaume ambao ni maskini wa kushinda vijiweni, ukiwauliza wasichana hao watakuambia mioyo yao ndiyo imetokea kuwapenda na hawako tayari kuwakosa.

Miongoni mwa wasichana hao wapo ambao familia zao hufikia hatua ya kuingilia kati na kueleza kuwa, hawako tayari binti yao kuwa katika uhusiano wa kimapenzi au kuolewa na mtu ambaye ni fukara lakini kuonesha mapenzi yalivyo ya ajabu, msichana anaweza kukataa na kueleza kuwa, endapo atalazimishwa kuachana na mwanaume aliyempenda kutoka moyoni mwake, bora ajiue!

 Achilia mbali hilo, wapo wanaume ‘handsome’, wenye uwezo kifedha ambao katika mazingira ya kawaida tulitarajia kuwaona wakiwa na wapenzi wakali lakini ashakum si matusi, unakuta kijana huyo yuko na jimama au  binti ambaye hana shepu, hana sura yaani yupo yupo tu lakini mwanaume anakuambia kwake ndiyo kafika, hasikii la kuambiwa. Jamani hayo ndiyo mapenzi! Mapenzi haya macho, ukishapenda umependa bila kujali huyo uliyempenda yukoje.

Ndio maana katika mazingira hayo unakuta baadhi ya watu wakiwasema wenzao kutokana na aina ya wapenzi walionao. Utawasikia wakisema maneno kama, “Huyo nanii naye, mwanaume gani sasa yule aliyenaye. Utadhani kalazimisha ampende, yaani na uzuri wake wote kuamua kuolewa naye!” Wapo wanaosema maneno hayo huko mtaani.

 Wengine hawaishii kuwateta tu wenzao bali hudiriki hata kuwaambia laivu kwamba, wapenzi walionao hawaendani. Jamani hivi hamjui kwamba kibaya kwako kizuri kwa mwenzako? Tambua kwamba, unayemuona si mzuri kwako wapo wanaomfukuzia lakini hawampati. Ndio maana nasema, ukishatokea kumpenda mtu na ukaamini kwamba naye ana mapenzi ya dhati kwako, ziba masikio wala usisikilize yale watakayoyasema walimwengu.

 Lazima iwe hivyo kwasababu, ukiwasikiliza kuna uwezekano mkubwa sana wa kukuyumbisha na hata kama moyo wako ulishaamua kumpenda  huyo uliyenaye, ukashangaa unaanza kupingana na moyo na kuhisi huenda kweli hukustahili kuwa naye.

Siku zote walimwengu hawakosi la kusema hivyo si wa kuwapa nafasi sana katika kufanya maamuzi yako hasa linapokuja suala la mapenzi. Si wote ambao watavutiwa na mpenzi uliyenaye, wengine watakwambia umedondoka sehemu ambayo siyo na washakunaku wanaweza kwenda mbele zaidi kumponda laazizi wako kuwa, ni kicheche na ashatembea na watu kibao.

 Ni suala la wewe kuwa na msimamo na kuamini katika kile ambacho umeamua. Umeamua kumpenda huyo uliyenaye, usiwape nafasi watu waanze kumjadili, waambie aweje aweje, moyo wako ndiyo umetua kwake.